Date Posted: 5/25/2014 1:11:23 AM
Posted By: Razen Membership Level: Gold Total Points: 3454
It iss not anyone around you who really means you harm. Similarly, not all around you love and adore you. Everyone has their own reasons either to love or to hate you and each single reason out there is justifiable. Nonetheless should we judge others or equally hate them. This is because both love and hate have their places in each of you. Whichever thing, place, someone, etc, we chose to hate or love, it’s our choice and other should learn to accept. Before someone accepts that you love or hate them, just be the first to express your content in their decisions. Rarely, we find ourselves understanding and loving others because they like or hate something we love or hate. This is because; everyone works towards achieving the best in their live, forgetting we all do the same thing.A mother will raise a child in her own ways. This means that almost all things in childhood the child will always emulate the mother or the father or whoever raised them. After the child grows into an adult they begin to choose their way of life and by this they just turn into what they really are. Even though the parentage traits have their permanent place in the now grown child, they are dominated by the Child’s own.Love is the largest book that can ever be written, at least if it was to be. Ask anyone to share their love history and listen, they will speak for hours! None of the story will be boring, I promise! The problem will be emotional dilations. You will find yourself smiling, crying, among other feelings. This is because loves has its way of getting things done in each of us, and believe me; no single method will work on two couples. Love can be a times stressing. You will occasionally find yourself so much compelled to love or hate someone who under normal circumstances, you would never love. Sometimes, parents, job, among other things are such compelling causes. Sometimes it’s the power beyond love that creates love. Love intentional and love unintentional, learn to love for a reason. There is no way you will say: I just loved him for no reason. He is not my type. Lies! Hatred on the other hand has a different facet. This is because hatred is quickly misguided and a very simple thing like sneezing in a slightly swayed-out-of-discipline manner will make you lose the interview and the result would be much hatred and misunderstandings. Stepping on a child can make that child hate you forever, accidental or not, they hate you, hatred! It’s mostly misguided and impulsive.Hatred is the cause of so many single men and ladies in the city. So many marriage break ups and so many children on the streets.A philosopher and a tech guru once said that if you learn to control either, you get the skill to control both. Someone who can love a lot can hate a lot, it’s a duo situation. Those who cannot keep love in their hearts cannot control the hatred in their heart. This is because whenever we love we get to experience the other side of love, hate.You are either lost or mixed up, let me get this clear this way:Loving takes a lot from you: Concentration, time, resources that have less or more monetary value, among very many other things. These resources sometimes cannot be given back and if you love someone who wastes them, you end up not finding any good in them, technically called “hating them”.There was once a man who so much loved his mother, when he attained what most people dram and hard to attain, wealth and power, he one day made a wrong move and the love between him and his mother quickly faded away. That led to his untimely death. Love for some reasons can hold life and death. Several people a day will self terminate because of love. Love for a reason and hate for a reason, because, for a reason we are loved and for a reason the love fades away and hatred finds its way!
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